guiding the new sub

Hi bois.

I had the most amazing call last night from a guy who, one way or another, ended up requesting My guidance into his new role as a submissive. I don't know what it is that I love about it, but whenever a guy calls to tell me that he's in the beginning stages of a sub / Dom relationship, my ears perk right up.

Maybe it's the speculation. Many guys don't realize it, but whatever a sub originally believes he'll be getting out of his new relationship is only the first chapter. What you take on at face value is rarely ever the full extent of what you'll be experiencing. Limits will be pushed, and (whether you choose to believe it or not) before your ride is over, you will be doing (and enjoying) things that you never would have allowed yourself to consider in the beginning stages.

This is especially true in My caller's situation. Some guys enter into a relationship for the sake of having a sub/Dom dynamic. This guy already has a girlfriend, so She's only now getting a general feel for what aspects of domination She finds appealing. However, as I warned my caller, as a Dominant progresses, tastes will change. What was fun at first will no longer hold the same thrill after a while, and to keep things interesting, new thrills will be found.... and there's no telling what that may be.

This is why it is so key to create hard limits in the beginning of the relationship. Well, assuming you want those limits to be respected, anyway. LOL Once a dynamic is established, a sub telling his Dom that he doesn't want something is practically an engraved invitation to give him exactly that. It may not happen right away, but eventually he will not only be pushed towards that thing that he thought he didn't want, but (under the guidance of a good Dom) he will learn to crave it.

To be completely honest, I was screwing with his head a little. It's all true! But after hearing the awe in My caller's voice, I may have pushed the envelope a bit as far as just how far his girlfriend may try to take him. Like I said, it's all speculation at this point anyway. That, and big load of giggles for Me.


Be good ;)

Kisses,
Drea.